Wednesday, July 29, 2026

WHISTLER by Ann Patchett

 


I have never read a book by Ms. Patchett. I may read another after reading this one. It is, above all, a restful, meditative story peopled by nicely delineated characters. Throughout, you are hit with phrases that can be pulled out and thought about. Some carry a touch of twisted humor as in “You miss out on a lot of experiences if your parents stay married,” and some go deeper as in “by recognizing impermanence, you might have a happier life and an easier death.”

The story is simple on the surface. Daphne Fuller and her husband are walking through New York’s Metropolitan Museum of Art, which by no coincidence houses a thorough history of human relations as depicted in art. By chance, Daphne’s former stepfather, Eddie Triplett, encounters them.  Daphne was only nine when her mother divorced Eddie and went on to remarry and have more children. The pair renew their brief time together and begin to confront an auto accident that they experienced together. Bits and pieces of the past are slowly recovered they begin to see how long-buried actions of love and courage influenced their lives and all of their families’ lives.   An aphorism is trotted out. “Everything is sentimental. All of it matters and none of it matters.” I identified with this when Daphne’s husband has to help his sister empty out and sell their mother’s house. We spend a life accumulating memories and things, and then we have to deal with the emptying out. Selling the family home for many of us has been a traumatic experience.  You won’t ever enter it again or sleep there again.  It’s a feeling “ like you’re going to fall into the past and it’s never going to let go of you.” You must come to grips with the fact that “Everything will end. Get used to that.  No one wants change, but it will.”

What more do you need in a good novel? Ms. Patchett creates substantive, believable characters. In stages they are both human and humorous while they demonstrate an affirmation that love and acceptance are the glue that holds human life together.  

I give it 4 out of 5.   

 

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